Treat him gently like soothing a child, slowly caress his face with the tip of your tongue, and drench him in saliva. "Get excited by the smell of my saliva" reassure the man and envelop him, then bring him to the brink of orgasm with a handjob. When he's about to come, "Don't you dare come on your own" scold him this time. "How about I give you a reward and kiss you?", "If you get it harder, I'll lick it for you" make him shoot repeatedly with rewards and punishments in completely passive sex.
